Crush: Is it Good or Bad?

       Having a crush to a guy or even in a girl if you’re a girl isn’t bad. Having a thousand crushes aren’t bad either. Because making a crush is just a way of saying that “I like the way she/he moves, I like her/his look, I like her/his attitide and so on.” It is just an APPRECiATiON. Does having a crush to a two or more people is bad? No, it’s not. It  is just an Appreciation, I repeat. Appreciation! But, but, but. Crush doesn’t need to take it seriously. IT DOESN’T NEED! It works because people do appreciate something about their fellow people and obviously, it’s good. One thing about crush is that it is close to careness. If someone appreciate something ’bout her/his crush, she/he will show that he/she really really cares for that particular person. But it is not love (with obsession and desired to be commit), I think. It may turn into falling inlove unto someone but it is not love. IT MAY! But be aware that it is to early to commit yourself to someone that doesn’t deserves you. Crush is for all ages but the love that I talks about is just for ADULTS ONLY. Kids, teens or teenagers aren’t ready yet to handle those big big problems and situation that committed persons have. They can’t survive because their knowledge is too small, they don’t have enough money to start a good family and their looks are not suitable for those problems.  I called them G.U.N. (Grow Up Now). They are too impatient ’bout love that they think that they know everything about it and they can handle it. One of the main reason of being influenced is by Media. Yes, THE MEDIA! Television, radios and so on got a big part on it because one of this days, everybody just want to sit and watch TVs, listen to the radios, read newspapers and magazines. And because of that, many people do things that media people do like sex, stolen kiss, torrid kisses, hugs and holding hands eventhough they are not knotted up  or they’re not married. See? Does this world really good to you. No it’s not. It will bring good feelings but it will not last. It will just bring us into problems and accidents. So don’t hold in this world but stay close to God because He will bring the good feeling that will lasts forever and the life without fear, accident, doubtness, trouble and problems. Believe me, It once happened to me but it will never happen again.